What a great day! We had lunch at Joy’s and per our tradition, went over and decorated Pop’s house for Christmas. Not all our family was in attendance, but those of us who could, gathered together and made a wonderful day of it. We missed you, Adam, Alex and Will.
Sunday afternoon a swarm of folks descended upon the quiet home of Clyde Townsend. He was about to have a surprise party to celebrate his 92nd year of life! People kept coming and he got happier and happier! And, so we celebrated and honored this patriarch of our family. He has guided us, supported us, corrected us, and loved us for our lifetimes. We love him dearly.
Alex was unable to attend, but sent his well wishes.
A sweet day to make memories. God has blessed us mightily with our Pop…aka Papa, Papa Clyde, Mr. Clyde, Mr. Townsend….but most of all…Daddy.
I had a doctors appointment early one morning last week and I left before I ate breakfast…not a wise decision. So after spending an hour and a half at the doctor’s office, I was hurting, sore and hungry. I had one errand to run before heading home to make good use of the heating pad. I glanced toward Loyless Doughnuts, as I passed by that way and saw that the sign said OPEN! It took a few seconds to register that I had finally driven by when they were not closed. “I’m going back,” I said out loud. One of those doughnuts would surely help my feelings! I wove my way around the streets and ended up back at Loyless. As I pulled up to the window…my heart sank. Right there on a sign in the window…it said NO CREDIT OR DEBIT CARDS…CASH ONLY.
I immediately knew I was in trouble. Because I didn’t want to lug my big purse around this morning, I grabbed a small bag and threw in my cards, and my phone and a lipstick. I have my cash in a different pace than where I keep my cards. And, I didn’t have it with me. My luck. I finally see them open and no money!
I remembered I had some change in a cup and grabbed it and thought I may have enough for one doughnut. I was sifting through my change, when a man opened the window. He asked how he could help me. I smiled at him and said…”Well, I’m trying to see if I have enough for a doughnut! I don’t have any other cash with me but this change!” He laughed and said, “Not to worry. I can give you a sample!” He came back with one heavenly glazed doughnut and one double heavenly glazed with chocolate! I said, “I have 75 cents here. Let me give you that.” “No ma’am,” he said, “this is on me today!” I said, “You are very kind. I hope you have a blessed day today.” He said, “Well, I can certainly use some blessings!” “Well, you have blessed me today and I thank you so much,” I said.
And, as I drove off, I saw him put the closed sign in the window.
I devoured those two doughnuts. I had the plain one for my breakfast and the chocolate one for dessert! There are none that compare! “O taste and see that the Lord is good.” Psalm 34:8. Those are some mighty fine doughnuts…but if you live in Dothan…you already know that!
My spirits were lifted. I don’t know if the blessing was for me to get the doughnuts…or for him to have the opportunity to blessme with the doughnuts...as a sample…free of charge!!! Because, we can not do something to bless others without the blessing rubbing off on us, too.
Perhaps God was thinking that when He said that we are to ‘serve one another in love and action’.He knew all along that if westrive to do that for others…we are going to share in the blessing ourselves! It just rubs off on the doer as much as the receiver.
And when we read this verse…
…we see that God has already set out all these opportunities in front of us. He prepared a place and time for us to share His love. Oh, I fear that I have missed some of my opportunities when I was too busy or too distracted or too self involved! I now try to look for ways to be available to do something in His name. And, I still fail. How it must grieve Him that I don’t notice what He puts right in front of me.
I remember a sermon long ago where the preacher posed this question …’What are you put on this earth for?’ At the time, I was young and still had many lessons left to learn. But, the speaker went on to answer his own question. He said, “Your sole purpose on this earth is to serve God by serving others.” I wrote that in big letters in my Bible and have never forgotten it. I’ve heard it preached on many times since then, but that statement truly hit the mark that day!
I still think that is such a profound statement. We have all been gifted with talents. And, all He asks in return is that we use those gifts to serve one another…to be His hands on this earth. But, serving others doesn’t even require one of those special gifts…it involves looking and seeing other people and putting ourselves in their place.
A few weeks ago, I was in the line at the grocery store. Even though I went in for a few items, my cart was filled to overflowing. The lines were long at every checkout. So I chose one and waited. I noticed that someone came up behind me, and I turned to see a man who had two items in his hands. I smiled at him and said, “Please go ahead of me…I’ll take a lot longer than you.” “Oh, no, ma’am”, he said, “I don’t mind waiting my turn.” “Of course you don’t, but I would want someone to let me go first, if things were reversed.” “Well, thank you, ma’am. I am in a big hurry.” He went on ahead, and finished and started walking away. He stopped and came back to me and said, “It’s been a long time since someone did something kind for me. You have made my day” “Great,” I said, “Just pass it along to someone else.” “I surely will, ” he said. and he walked away with a smile on his face.
Now what I did was no big deal. I do that any time I can. He felt blessed and I felt like God was pleased. And, I don’t know about you, but anytime I feel like God is pleased with me, I’m a happy girl! I don’t believe we meet people by accident. I believe that people are placed in our path for a reason…either a lesson to be learned or a blessing to be shared!
Levi’s tree…all vehicles carrying trees on top. We started this collection the year he was born and love adding to it every year!
A few days before Christmas, John Thomas and Levi and I had a craft day. We decorated cookies, painted trees, made ornaments, and ate lots of decorated cookies!
As soon as the tree went up, Levi put his nativity scene in place…
Christmas Eve, lunch after church.
At Church, Christmas Eve
Making that important visit…
5 teeth gone…
Christmas Day started with a gourmet breakfast by none other than Chef Ian. OH! MY! So yummy!
The Owens Family…
Don and Pop…
My sweet sister…and her sweet sister…
My children and my Pop…
Alex and Ian…
My sweet daughter in love…
Joy and her boys…
Lori and I…
Adam, Suzanne, Levi…
My eldest, Adam…
A gift to all, Alex celebrated the day with us…
Pop telling Alex something important….
Alex and Pop…
Someone’s getting a little tired…
Don’t know what they are looking at, but it sure has their attention…
Lori and Joy…
Joy and Tommy…
Tommy and Don…
Lulu and Levi…
Love comes in many forms…
Taking it all in…
Lori and Ian…eating buddies!
Though unable to be with us (John Thomas had the flu)…Will and Tara celebrated, too…Sure missed them!
Pop, Joy and Tonja…
Don and his boys…
Closing up the Nativity…He said it was time for them to rest…
Beautiful Nativity from Europe gifted by Joy and Tommy…
Our sweet Levi…
The sweet memories we make linger in our hearts long after December 25 is past. We are blessed in so many ways. Even though we could not all be together on Christmas Day…we were together in heart. I thank God for his mercy and grace and for every good gift he sends our way!
To my dear Mom, who celebrates Christmas in Heaven now, I missed you today as much as on the first Christmas without you. Your touch resonates in our hearts and souls. You are forever in our hearts.
My sweet Levi has learned many lessons at the tender age of 6. From walking to talking to ‘going potty’, to riding a bicycle, to riding a little motorcycle, to sitting quietly in class, to diving and swimming like a fish. He knows how to apologize, he has learned what it means to hurt someone’s feelings. He has learned to read and he has learned try new foods (with coaxing). He has learned to perform on a stage and he knows how to sit quietly in an adult setting (though it is very hard). And, he has learned that he is a sinner. That Jesus came to this earth to pay a price for us, so that we may live with him forever. He understands what means to sin. And, he understands forgiveness.
I say all this, to say that he has been surrounded by learning since he was born. So has every child. They will learn…whether we choose the lessons or not. As it has been said, “You can be a good inspiration or a horrible example”. But it is seen and tucked away…part of that learning process.
We (his parents and 5 grandparents and aunts and uncles) have always tried to mirror that strong sense of faith that we all understand so well. We have found our faith tested and seen it proven true and real time and again! And we wish to show to our little man just how faithful God is. We know God keeps His promises, and we want him to know that. We know that God answers prayer, and we want him to have the joy of seeing that for himself.
And while none of his family is perfect…we all try to use those ‘teachable moments’ when they arise. Lessons to be learned are so much easier if the teaching is done while the situation is close in mind and heart.
Now that he is in first grade, none of us ‘grands’ get as much time with him as we would like. But life moves along and we have developed our own routine. Every morning Levi is dropped at my house, gets dressed here, eats breakfast here, and Don or I take him to school. Then his other grandparents pick him up from school and start his homework with him. How I love getting to share a meal with him and pray with him and send him into the school building with an ‘I love you’ and ‘Have a great day’. His other grandmother gets the joy of hearing all about what went on that day and all his adventures…and spelling words.
We prepare breakfast and always call Uncle Alex on the intercom and ask him to come join us. Most times, he can’t. But sometimes we are blessed that he can. Such was what happened yesterday.
After breakfast, as Alex was going back to his room, and Levi was putting on his shoes:
ALEX…I enjoyed having breakfast with you this morning, Levi.
LEVI…I did too, Uncle Alex. I’m glad you are not hurting today!
ALEX… Well, Buddy, I am hurting today…just not as bad as usual. Today is a ‘better’ day.
LEVI…(raising his hands in the air) That’s what we have been asking God to do!
ALEX…And He did, Levi. He gave me a morning to enjoy with you. He is so good. He always hears us when we pray.
Wow! What an affirmation in a little boy’s mind that God was busy about answering his prayers!
Today was a little nerve wracking for me. My health has taken a nose dive lately and I am facing 3 operations in the coming months. It’s hard to get old and ‘wear out”! This morning I had the first of the procedures, because this was the most urgent. Without going into too many details, I have a kidney that is not doing what God put it in there to do. We’ve known that it was ‘different’ for a few years, but until today, we did not know how ‘no good’ it really is. Suffice it to say, although it may continue to reside in the place it lies…it is of no use to my body. The only thing it could do is affect my other kidney. You know, the one that ‘gets with the program’, the one that does its job mostly without complaining ( except for throwing a few stones at me through the years), the one that goes about its life following the rules. If it gets too unruly, it will be tossed out…but for now…it stays.
So today my faith was tested. I was nervous about the results we would find, as it looked on CT scan as if there was a mass on it. However, yesterday, as I was reading or flipping through Pinterest or catching up with you on FB…Bible verses kept coming before me…“Do not be afraid”….“The Lord goes ahead of you”….“He is with you wherever you go”….“I know the plans I have foryou.” ” I knit you together in your mother’s womb.” All reminding me and encouraging me of what I knew was truth. But, fear can override our good sense sometimes, can’t it?
Then this morning, Don and I had prayer in the waiting room…and put our trust in Him again…asking Him to guide the doctor’s hands and give him wisdom as he performed the surgery.
As I waited in my room, a dear friend texted me and began going on about some nonsense about me wearing my ‘crown’! She made me laugh. I sent her a ‘selfie’ of me in the bed. She sent me funny emoticons! What a respite that was as I waited! I received other texts from friends who assured me they had been praying and would continue. I was confident that I was being covered in prayer!
And, when I arrived in Pre-op…there was my friend of some 30 years waiting on me. She is an anesthetist at the hospital and we have been in church together since our children were small. She took my case. She brought me warm blankets. She gently started my IV. She ran to the pharmacy and got me some nose spray so I could breath (darn allergies). She reminded me that she would be there through it all. Her kindness and gentle spirit calmed my soul.
It was God who led me to a doctor I had confidence in…it was God who put words of affirmation and truth in front of my eyes…it was God who arranged it for my friend to be by my side. Perhaps you were the one who posted a Bible verse on FB yesterday, or perhaps it was you who was remembering me in your prayers. Maybe it was you who sent me a text reminding me of your love and concern or held my hand and prayed with me. Let no one ever tell you that doing and speaking about the Lord …about His kindness and care…His love…is ever is in vain. I may not be able to thank you in person…but I know…and God knows. To those of us who are Christians, God expects us to act at all times as if we were serving Him. And, we are. We are God’s hands.
I am resting at home now…taking my pain meds…uncomfortable, but satisfied. A trying day to, to be sure. But a day when God once again proved to me that He is faithful! He works in our lives when we need Him. He works in our world…just for us…and so many times, we don’t even realize it to acknowledge it. But, friends…this I know is true: God is who He says He is. God does what He says He will do. God is always with me. God watches my every move and sends people or words or scripture, even hymns (‘Tis So Sweet To Trust In Jesus) straight to me when I need it.
He will do the same thing for you. Because as much as He loves and cares for and protects me…He loves and cares for and protects you just as much! Just keep looking. He’ll prove it to you!
I am a Christian woman who has survived many years on the planet. God has blessed me with a wonderful family: husband, 3 sons, a dear DIL, and a precious grandson. I also have dear friends to keep me inspired. I am an artist of sorts and am finding my way through the great blessing of retirement. I recently retired after 20 years as a music teacher. Life is good!
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